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The song starts slow, and sad at first, opening with chime sounds that resemble rain. Grief can come up at the strangest moments for the most random reasons, but that’s ok. But grief needs to be felt, whatever you’re grieving needs to be experienced, rather than pushed away. That after the “5 stages” you’re basically good to go. Sometimes I feel like the world expects us to just keep going through grief, to move on and toughen up. Well they say that you’re gone and that I should move on

All of the lyrics really speak to me, especially these: It seems to have been written as a lost love, though it also feels like it’s just about losing someone very important to you and wishing you could see them again. And when I think about how much time has passed it feels so strange - it feels like it’s gone by both slow and fast at the same time.Ī song that I’ve been listening to a lot that really resonates with me in these feelings is Lord Huron’s “In the Wind.” I’m not sure if it was written exactly for what I’m feeling, but it does resonate with me in my grief. I want to go for a walk with her, or have lunch and go shopping, or just hang out. I have a question to ask, a thought to share, or just want to talk, but it’s not something that can happen. Some days I go to pick up the phone and call, but I remember I no longer can.

While I try to keep going some days I just feel so sad and start to think what’s it all about? It’s so hard to keep going sometimes, when you lose someone you love and care about.